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Co-parenting requires teamwork from the adults

Co-parenting is a common method for raising children after a divorce. There are many different things that you have to consider, but the one that must always remain as the primary focus is that the children are the most important people in the arrangement. This can help to ensure you are doing what is best for them.

You might find that co-parenting is a bit challenging at first because you are still trying to deal with the feelings left behind from the marriage. This isn't easy to deal with, but trying to work through them can help you to be a better co-parent because you can put your feelings aside.

Member of the team

When you co-parent, you are a member of your child's team. The other member is your ex. When you work as a team to make the parenting decisions, you can give your children the stability they deserve. The decisions that you make as a team should be consistent through both homes.

Another way to be a team is to back up your co-parent in the decisions they make. If you don't agree with a decision, discuss it privately with them. You shouldn't let the children see you disagree. When they see discord, the children might think of it as an opportunity to play one parent against the other.

Encourage your children

Your children need encouragement from both parents. This goes for things like school and extracurricular activities, but it also applies to encouraging relationships with both families. You should encourage your kids to have a meaningful relationship with their other parent and family members who mean a lot to them. They shouldn't ever feel as though they have to choose one family over the other.

Encourage the kids to talk to you about everything, including the time they spend with the other parent. This doesn't have to be done in a pushy way. Just let them know they can share what they want, and interact with them about what they tell you. For example, show excitement when they are excited about something.

When you have a parenting plan in place, it should contain the information necessary to help the kids thrive. It also gives you something to review when there are child-related issues that must be addressed. The more information you have in the plan, the better you might fare.

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